Pick up a copy of Italian vogue.[/QUOTE]
Italian Vogue is a great source of information about fashion. I read it often and I find it useful.
Also you can "get" ideas from famous people. If you like/relate yourself to a particular celebrity, you can use his fashion ideas. Just google the person's pictures or go to that person's website.
Also it is good to know that there are men who care about their appearances... You will stand out in a good way, trust me.
There are not that many men here who care about it unfortunately

. Flip-flops, sweat pants and square shaped t-shirts are very popular where I live (I even sometimes see people wearing flip-flops to the events like weddings)