A verb is reflexive when the action is performed on the subject. For example the verb
to wash one's self is a reflexive verb because the person who is doing the action of washing is also the person who is receiving the action of being washed. Some more examples are:
to comb your hair
to dress up
to undress
to make yourself a sandwich
In all of the above examples, the subject (person who does the action) and the direct obejct (the person receiving the action) are one in the same.
In Italian we know that a verb is reflexive when the verb has the letters "si" attached to the infinitive. Some examples are:
svegliarsi = to wake up lavarsi = to wash up farsi un panino = to make yourself a sandwich
Notice that all of the Italian verbs above end in "si" so they are reflexive.
How to conjugate a reflexive verb
To conjugate a reflexive verb you need three things:
Subject + matching reflexive pronoun + conjugated verb (in that order!!)
The subjects in Italian are:
io = I
tu = you (informal)
lui = he
lei = she
Lei = you (formal)
noi = we
voi = you (plural)
loro = they
Loro = You (plural and formal)
Now each one of the above subjects matches up with its very own reflexive pronoun:
io - mi
tu - ti
lui - si
lei - si
Lei - si
noi - ci
voi - vi
loro - si
Loro - si
Finaly you will conjugate your verb. To learn how to conjugate a verb go to the following link:
Italian Presente tense | Italy
Now here are some common reflexive verbs in Italian:
Addormentarsi
To fall asleep or go to sleep
Alzarsi
To get up
Annoiarsi
To be bored
Asciugarsi
To dry off
Chiamarsi
To be called / named
Divertirsi
To enjoy oneself
Farsi la barba
To shave oneself (beard)
Farsi il bagno
To bathe oneself (take a bath)
Fermarsi
To stop
Lavarsi
To wash oneself
Leggere il giornale
To read the paper
Mettersi
To put on clothing
Mettersi a [+ inf]
To begin / start
Pettinarsi
To comb one's own hair
Preoccuparsi (di)
To worry (about)
Preparasi per [+ inf]
To prepare oneself for
Salutarsi
To greet each other (reciprocal reflexive)
Sentirsi
To feel
Svegliarsi
To wake up
Truccarsi
To put on makeup
Vestirsi
To get dressed
Let's try one:
We get up
1. Identify the subject which is "we" (In Italian "
noi")
2. Now match up "Noi" with the appropriate reflexive pronoun like I showed
you in the chart earlier. Noi matches up with "
ci"
3. Now find the verb "to get up" from the list above. The verb is "alzarsi". Now conjugate your verb according to the subject
(noi.) Since the subject is noi, my verb ending will be "iamo" (alzarsi ---> alz --->
alziamo )
Notice how I cut off
the "arsi" from the verb alzarsi and then I added my ending "iamo".
4. Now take the three bold words from numbers 1,2,3 above and put them
together in a sentence:
Noi ci alziamo = We get up
Remember: the word order is always: Subject + pronoun + verb (in that order)