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Villa
03-17-2008, 07:28 AM
Adulterous Italian women can now protect their honour with impunity

Italy's highest appeal court has ruled that married Italian women who commit adultery are entitled to lie about it to protect their honour.

The court gave its landmark ruling after hearing the case of a 48-year-old woman, convicted of giving false testimony to police by denying she had lent her mobile phone to her lover.

The appeal court did not agree that she had broken the law.

It said bending the truth was justified to conceal extra-marital relationships.

In a predominantly Catholic country you might expect the courts to take a dim view of lying and adultery.

But not in this case.

The woman who brought the appeal was from Porto Ercole on the Tuscany coast, and named only as Carla.

She had lent her telephone to her secret lover, Giovanni, who then used it to call Carla's estranged husband, Vincenzo, and insult him.

Giovanni, the lover, was convicted of abusive behaviour in a local court, and Carla convicted as an accessory.

Controversial judgements

But the Court of Cassation found that having a lover was a circumstance that damaged the honour of the person among family and friends.

Lying about it, therefore, was permitted, even in a judicial investigation.

It is not yet clear whether the ruling might also apply to men who have secret mistresses.

The Court of Cassation, which is largely staffed by elderly male appeal judges, has in the past issued a number of controversial judgements.

It once gave a ruling, later rescinded after protests from women's groups, that a woman could not be raped by definition if she was wearing tight jeans, since the jeans could only be removed with her consent.

bubbles
03-17-2008, 08:24 AM
Ouch, the hypocrisy of this whole situation amazes me!

Dan
03-18-2008, 10:46 PM
That is quite a ruling...I cannot believe that this was considered "just".

People who cheat should not be given a slap on the wrist, especially when it comes to lying in a court of law.

Stating that it was okay to bend the truth under oath is really upsetting...

stephaniealexis8
03-20-2008, 01:01 PM
Adulterous Italian women can now protect their honour with impunity

Italy's highest appeal court has ruled that married Italian women who commit adultery are entitled to lie about it to protect their honour.

The court gave its landmark ruling after hearing the case of a 48-year-old woman, convicted of giving false testimony to police by denying she had lent her mobile phone to her lover.

The appeal court did not agree that she had broken the law.

It said bending the truth was justified to conceal extra-marital relationships.

In a predominantly Catholic country you might expect the courts to take a dim view of lying and adultery.

But not in this case.

The woman who brought the appeal was from Porto Ercole on the Tuscany coast, and named only as Carla.

She had lent her telephone to her secret lover, Giovanni, who then used it to call Carla's estranged husband, Vincenzo, and insult him.

Giovanni, the lover, was convicted of abusive behaviour in a local court, and Carla convicted as an accessory.

Controversial judgements

But the Court of Cassation found that having a lover was a circumstance that damaged the honour of the person among family and friends.

Lying about it, therefore, was permitted, even in a judicial investigation.

It is not yet clear whether the ruling might also apply to men who have secret mistresses.

The Court of Cassation, which is largely staffed by elderly male appeal judges, has in the past issued a number of controversial judgements.

It once gave a ruling, later rescinded after protests from women's groups, that a woman could not be raped by definition if she was wearing tight jeans, since the jeans could only be removed with her consent.

So in Italy it's illegal to use your forbidden lover's phone to insult her husband, as opposed to just stupid? And if you let said insulter use your phone then you can be seen as an accessory? Please tell me there's more to this story - money? Power? Blackmail? As it stands, this wouldn't even rate as a late night drama on American TV.

I would have been more impressed had the Court of Cassation made their ruling out of concern for the woman's safety, from a jealous husband's possible retribution, for instance. Instead they dusted off that old relic-of-an-excuse, 'honor'. God, was there ever a more deadly word? Why do we invest so much into this ideal, especially when it comes to sexual relations? People lie for it, cheat for it, murder family members for it, even go to war over it, all in the name of some antiquated notion of 'purity'. Why is this impossible ideal of virginity, and the subsequent pride over it, still so prized in 2008, A. D.?

hautemode
03-30-2008, 04:15 AM
Is there more to this story? It sounds too unbelievable.:confused:

Dan
03-31-2008, 06:16 PM
Is there more to this story? It sounds too unbelievable.:confused:

You're telling me. As a man I can tell you I've known countless guys who cheat (who will remain anonymous), and I have always felt that it is truly disgusting to do.

If you cannot love the one you are with, then don't go against your morals to find a "quick fix".

It may be because I had a very good idea (although never proven beyond a doubt) that a girl I was dating was cheating on me, so I know how it feels, and it is one of the most awful feelings in the world.

And whats worse is that women cheat more than men. The only difference is that women are used to being very discreet and don't slip up as much as men. I asked my best girl friend and she agreed, it is just easier for them.

So don't do it.