Female G spot 'can be detected'

Some doubt the existence of a G spot at all The mysterious G spot - supposedly a route to female sexual satisfaction - can be located with ultrasound, claim Italian scientists.
Some women say stimulating a certain part of the vagina triggers powerful orgasms, but medics have not been able to pin down the exact location.

Researchers told New Scientist magazine they found an area of thicker tissue among the women reporting orgasms.

But specialists warned there could be other reasons for this difference.

For the first time, it is possible to determine by a simple, rapid and inexpensive method if a woman has got a G spot or not

Dr Emmanuele Jannini
University of L'Aquila

The existence of the G spot has remained controversial since the 1980s, when the term was coined as a way to explain why some women were able to achieve orgasm through vaginal stimulation, while others were not.

Some specialists claim that the term has led to over-anxiety among women who cannot reach satisfaction this way, and their partners.

Love muscle

The latest research, published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, was carried out the Dr Emmanuele Jannini at the University of L'Aquila, and involved just 20 women.

Ultrasound was used to measure the size and shape of the tissue beyond the "front" wall of the vagina, often suggested as the location of the G spot.

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Paolo

What kind of Italian Scientist and Doctors are these guys ? How do you expect them to determine where are lovely ladies G spot is when the spent most of there perpetual youth with there nose in medicals books and there sausages zip locked in there freezer!

For the first time, it is possible to determine by a simple, rapid and inexpensive method if a woman has got a G spot or not.

So where exactly can I find this simple, rapid and inexpensive method on store shelves?!?

:p

Oh Danny boy! G stands for go find it..


Li spero mai rapidamente esattamente ritrovamento dove è... Poiché
cercandolo e trovandolo.... È il piacere mysterious climatico
italiano di tutto di fare l'amore!

Perchè se è in così punto preciso e prevedibile... gli amanti
robot succhiano! Goda appena il viaggio cercano e prodigano
nella faretra dai labbri del basso e dell'alto di questa creatura
sensibile treasonable e bella denominata La Donna.

Salve
Vino dell'annata

I hope you never quickly find exactly where it is … Because searching for it and finding it…. Is the whole Italian climatic mysterious pleasure of making Love!

Why should it be in such a precise and predictable spot… robotic lovers suck!
Just enjoy the journey hunt and lavish the quiver from the top and bottom lips of this treasonable and beautiful sensitive creature called La Donna.

Salve
Vintage wine

oh my...

they are trying really hard to find it!

do women even know where it is?...are we supposed to?

Anjelbella777

First question is No….second…not precisely and if you did it would destroy your total sexual emotional climatic anticipation. Love making would become robotic and emotionless. Besides these doctors would have the longest women lineups in front of there doors waiting for a fix.
I wish it was that easy but nothing so wonderful never comes that easy! Lets just say all women’s sensual sensations vary for one spot to the other. What works for one might not work for the other. I hate when people try to analysis sex it takes the whole pleasure away from the expression love making.

Salve

DOTTORE SALIVA - OH I MEAN DOTTORE SANULLA;
what the heck?

I agree these doctors are to much …are they going to put a pencil mark on it. They haven’t found a cure for cancer but they got time to do research for a women’s G spot…ma give me a break.
Could you imagine how boring if he knew and if she knew exactly where her G spot was. What next maybe… put a tattoo on it, like a big G…we read all day, do they expect us to continue reading while making love down in the valley heaven after a long day at work…ma enjoy go finding it, that’s what the G stands for ..and find a cure for cancer instead.

Salve

Oh Brother, what a topic!

I think the best part about this thread is watching y'all talk about this. Do YOU know where your gals g-spot is? You should!

I do agree Frank...with all the ways to die...you would think that they would concentrate on what is important...AIDs, cancer... Surely this study is all about how much money they would make if they could pinpoint it for a person.

However I am proud of y'all for even addressing this.

Yes, absolutely.. I could just see the advertisements posted for women’s G spots

“Visit your gynecologist now! will guarantee to find your G spot for a reasonable price of 69 er!”

Great

Well Micio, yes this is doctor sa nulla. ( Non sa liva ... I just read the comment )
Well I did find the news entartaining - So I decided to add it to see the comments -
I do not think it is that this research is strange however - I bet there are people out there researching sex in fleas or something like that ....

Paolo

Paolo

These doctors are trying to confuse and convince young women that they only have one precise G spot.
They did not learn there first lesson from the study of female Insects. They tried finding the G spot on a female fly once.. but gave up when they noticed the female flies roaming around a pile of free shit for hours still confused whether to land on it or not. Out of frustration, the doctors came to a conclusion and realized that even if theses female flies found their G spot they could never totally satisFLY them.

What psychological effect would there study have on women and there lovers if they all new exactly where the G spot was located?
Some doctor‘s still debate whether it exists and now these Italian doctors are trying to exactly pin point the G spot for every woman, that’s immaturely and psychologically wrong to make this sort of claim.

Most men know this is foolish, because the G spot is really an “area” more than a specific spot. We know it means the G spot will be different sizes, shapes, and in a different place with every woman. The G spot will be even changing with the same woman from time to time, and sometimes even in the same sex session! “where is the G spot” on an individual woman requires exploration .
All men know the female G spot does exist! Unfortunately, some women who have never experience an orgasm tend not to believe they have a G spot. Why dont they sent up clinics to help them. We have seen, first hand, it's delicious fruits intense whole body orgasms, pulses and waves of ecstatic pleasure for minutes at a time and even amazing flows of amrita known as female ejaculation. We can agree the G spot exists but not with these doctors claims of a specific G spot location.

Good luck!

Oh Brother, what a topic!

I think the best part about this thread is watching y'all talk about this. Do YOU know where your gals g-spot is? You should!

I do agree Frank...with all the ways to die...you would think that they would concentrate on what is important...AIDs, cancer... Surely this study is all about how much money they would make if they could pinpoint it for a person.

However I am proud of y'all for even addressing this.


I was just trying to figure out why anyone would want to "locate" the G spot....like what is the motivation......

It must be the potential $$$ involved but I wonder where the $$ is in this....

These Italian Doctors smell money if they can prove there claim and find the precise G spot location. You don't have to be into the ancient art and science of sacred spirituality to profit from all this free G-Spot information but they think otherwise.
In reality most men know, it is a small area on the front wall of the vagina between the cervix and vaginal opening. The majority of men make there lovers climax with multiple orgasms when there sexual position for G-spot stimulation is woman-on-top because you can control speed and depth of penetration. Also, a shorter, smaller penis which is hard to find in Italy more in the north than in the south may actually be more effective for this type of stimulation. Unfortunately, many doctors today still debate this complex subject.



Some hypothesize that the G-spot is a bundle of nerves extending from the clitoris. Others think that the G-spot is a gland that provides lubrication, resembling the prostate gland in men. A previous study confirmed the presence of the G-spot in all women. However, not everyone finds G-spot stimulation pleasurable. Some women have orgasms through G-spot stimulation alone, others prefer a combination of G-spot and clitoral arousal. One study reports that 84 percent of women believe that there G- spot is a “highly sensitive area” in the vagina but don’t know exactly where it is and many lovers sadly do not discuss there G-spot with each other.
There long term objective is to charge women who are having sexual trouble climaxing or orgasms and eventually setting up shop to treat them. Because most everyone today grows up with a high degree of sexual ignorance and some degree of repression and wounding, we understand the fascination with the G-Spot and so these Doctors what to take advantage of this situation.

Italian Doctors in Italy, have had many debates around the very existence of the G-spot, and the quality of orgasm it's stimulation supposedly produces. Some women report that they are not able to orgasm without this area of the vagina being stimulated. Others report needing to have clitoral and vaginal stimulation simultaneously, and still others want only clitoral stimulation. Some say it is an essential part of sexual arousal, for others, the G-spot doesn't even exist. What to we do for women who believe they do not have a G-spot? Today, Doctors are trying to specially pin point this elusive G-spot to help women with their frustration with Orgasm. Are these medical doctors really qualified? Can women be convinced by medical doctors or should they be seeking the advice of a sex therapist?

Unlike the clitoris, there are no carefully controlled scientific studies to confirm orgasm due to the stimulation of this area alone, so the reports are anecdotal (and yes, medical scientist have been known to do carefully controlled studies on things like this). Women differ widely as to what they prefer when having sex, and as to what brings us to orgasm. So what are these differences truly considered, physical or psychological?

"The latest research, published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, was carried out (by) the Dr. Emmanuele Jannini at the University of L'Aquila, and involved just 20 women.
Ultrasound was used to measure the size and shape of the tissue beyond the 'front' wall of the vagina, often suggested as the location of the G-spot. In the nine women who reported being able to achieve vaginal orgasm, the tissues between the vagina and the urethra — which carries urine out of the body — were on average thicker than in the 11 women who could not reach orgasm this way."

One interesting fact is that the majority of women still believe the G-spot is not a riddle wrapped inside a mystery surrounded by an enigma, and there is no doubt that every woman has one. It's not buried deep in our "mystery caves," nor do we need help finding it, nor are our lovers going to end up cheating on us or leaving if they can't "hit it."

A recent survey with Italian men proclaimed there ego’s were tarnished and suffered psychological effects not being able to make there lover climax or have multiple orgasm. Most men blamed there partner and used this excuse for cheating and seducing other women while calming there own love making insecurities. Other men pardon there partners and were faithful during there failed sexual discomforts. Some men believe that women’s biological clocks are ticking away faster, at a much earlier age due to stress and working long hours in a more demanding a society that requires couples to both work and as a result increases tension and fatigue. Sex therapists studies are reporting an increase in anal sex among couples. Many men today believe the clitoris is no longer our smug little princess of pleasure and are now switching from oral clitoris stimulation to having more anal sex to cure frigid and frustrated women. Will engaging in deep anal penetration resolve the problem of not being able to orgasm? Italian doctors who have debated the true existence of the G-spot agree that more research and exploration will be necessary to justify these claims.

Anal sex do you recommend trying it for women who can not orgasm from vaginal stimulation?
She enjoyed double-penetration sexual orgasm by her husband's penis and love toy. But please be aware of anal-sex induced Problems.

Prostaglandin E-2 in semen will suppress immunity and induce COX-2 over-expression for more prostaglandin E-2 synthesis in the rectum and anus tissue, leading to infection and disease; while in the vagina, prostaglandin E-2 suppresses natural vaginal antibiotic for sperms to survive and to swim into the uterus, but rarely induces COX-2 expression unless there is an excessive vaginal abrasion or the woman is under the influence of birth control, medication or street drugs. The vaginal tissue is less sensitive to prostaglandin E-2 than the anal/rectal tissue in igniting a chain reaction of the COX-2 expression.

In light cases, anal sex can cause bowel movement incontinence due to the nervous disorder and abrasion where prostaglandin E-2 plays its role, while in severe causes, it will result in infection (HIV is an typical example).

Doctors recommend the following safety procedures for Anal Orgasms

Step 1. Lubricate the anus well. The anus isn't designed for you to insert items inside it--there is no natural lubricant as there is with the vagina. Insertion can also cause painful muscle spasms. Without lubricant, it's difficult to extract the penis or toy during one of these spasms.
Step 2. Go slowly. This one should be obvious but many people tend to get over excited and plunge right in. The anus, and your partner, might not be used to this kind of activity. Start with a finger and gently work up to inserting the head of your penis or the tip of the toy before taking the plunge.
Step 3:
Allow the anus, and your partner, to relax after full insertion. Just like it can hurt to have vaginal sex the first time, anal sex may be painful as well. Once your partner learns to control her rectal muscles, the pleasure should increase for both.
Step 4:
Listen to your partner. Be very mindful of her needs at every moment. Adjust the depth of the rhythm of your thrusts to accommodate her pleasure, not yours. If you are using a toy, then you have all the control and should simply do what feels good to your partner.

what about the others letters?!?
Where they should be?

Italian lovers obsession is accomplishing orgasm. They disagree with the Doctor’s theory of a Women having a one specific G- Spot. A study was taken with Women who discussed there sexual encounters with Italian men. They claimed Italian men masterly discoverer their G-spots and orgasm became easier to achieve.
Orgasm is what many lovers dream to achieve, though many women still find it quite difficult to reach the big O. These women who’s pleasures were performed by Italian men shared the experience.

It began with patience and foreplay. Italian men were graceful with there hands and steady with their tongues in oral sex. The women enjoyed the gentle kisses all over their body and when using only there luscious lips slowly gliding them along the back of their neck and inner thighs created this enormous volcanic anticipation of melting in an orgasmic bliss.

It intensified her arousal while surprisingly discovering her new sensitive spots. Skillful lovers said one Women. The tongue was artful in bringing her to orgasm. He start from her neck and ears working down to her navel and belly, continuing his way up her back and buttocks. Keeping it wet with his tongue flat and relaxed while fluttering along her body. What about the touching? One women described the Touching awakened her body to a new level it was the spontaneous moves that were highly appreciated by the ladies.
The Italian did not ignore the small signs of attention outside her clitoris and placed his hand on her knee gently sliding in the direction of her thighs when she was not expecting it. The feel was a nice tingle that attuned her for more spice.

This Italian spice was Scratching but soothing to her back and buttocks drawing lines with his fingers. It made me purr with pleasure said the lady. It was so gentle and he did not leave marks on my skin. It was best described like a massage relaxing and arousing. A women understood now why Italian men like to pitch.

The pitching softly of her nipples it stimulated her nerve centers and made her feel an amazing mix. In the mix of this Italian love recipe came the Spanking, stroking her butt with his palms was a sexual pleasure it made her feel like a “bad girl” while only to be punished with pleasurable intense soft sensations and without hurting which just warmed me up for the Biting of her ears, neck, inner thighs, breasts and butt. He had me pleasantly wiggling in different sexual positions with wild passion. This warmth was sensitively cooled with the Blowing on her neck, ears, and clitoris.
The long awaited insertion and thrust of his penis in my vagina was amazing. It fulfilled my total sensations, an orgasm of fullness and one Italian I will remember for years to come.

Climax is possible for every woman, and Italian men can help them get there!
Doctors in Italy are facing a real challenge with the increase in women who are not reaching the big O, and their not alone. Studies show that about 10% of women have never experienced an orgasm, and an alarming 50% of women have had trouble getting aroused at some point. Although the statistics for women in Italy are much lower than other countries in the world. Italian doctors continue their G-Spot studies with foreign women who are now seeking sexual & medical help in Italy. Can Italian men really help these women? Some sex therapist believe it is not the Italian men but the romantic relaxing and stress free environment that is offered in Italy.
Italy is rated in the top 20 of the most sexual active countries in the world. Interesting to know that France, Italy’s neighbor is rated number one.
50-60% of women will never have an orgasm via intercourse and will require clitoral or anal stimulation to climax.
30% of women will have a reliable orgasm with intercourse.
10% of women will orgasm with intercourse and could possibly have sequential orgasms.
5% of women have true multiple orgasms only through intercourse and these women typically find oral sex uncomfortable.

There is a real range when it comes to women having orgasms. There is likely a biologic difference between women (though exactly what that is doctors in Italy are devoting more time in research and exploration), but some women have a lower threshold for orgasm and some higher, which reflects differences in sensitivity.

So why are so many women having trouble climaxing?

There is a big psychological difference between women in that some women are more uninhibited than others and can let themselves go without guilt or shame and this makes it easier for them to have an orgasm. Anxiety interferes both psychologically and biologically (in the brain by blocking certain neural pathways) with reaching a climax.
Lastly, there are differences in education levels about the body and sex; some women simply know a lot more about how to have an orgasm than others.

While many doctors are debating the physical or psychological argument other medical doctors are now practicing there foreplay in procedures with research and exploration in respect to women’s food diets as a possible reason for this alarming increase with women not being able to reach orgasm.
So do we honestly believe these doctors are on to something worth exploring? Well, if it’s the quality of food consumption they think is the problem at least they should get some positive feedback in Italy.

I am new here plz help me.

only testing

Um some questions: How many of the study's researchers are women? Was the reporter of the article a woman? I'd like to see women become more involved in the clinical aspect of this study. No offense guys, but it's not your body under the microscope here. Wouldn't a woman know her own body and its physical responses to sexual stimuli better?

The thought that food may being playing a role is interesting, but are other aspects of society being studied? In other words, is the relationship between Italian women and their culture, which can be seen as steeped in an opprssive religious dogma that frowns upon any form of sexual expression that is not reproductive in nature, being investigated? (Interesting to note that neighboring France, a country known to be skeptical of organized religion, is rated #1 regarding sexually activity.)

Finally, to quote: "Climax is possible for every woman, and Italian men can help them get there!" This so perpetuates the machismo myth that women are just helpless damsels-in-distress and are in need of saving by the archetype white knight (male researchers). I'd be happier to see Italian women helping themselves first. There's plenty of precedent (e.g. - "Our Bodies, Ourselves").
"Every woman has a militant responsibility to involve herself actively with her own health." Audrey Lorde, The Cancer Journals

Thoughts?

:oGood Questions?
The original post below mentions Italian Dr. Emmanuele Jannini from the University of L’Aquila believes from his G-Spot study that the Female G spot 'can be detected' The study was performed on 20 woman. There are other Doctors who disagree that a specific G-Spot location exists and many others, including women, unfortunately who have not reached the big O, don’t believe they have one. Yes, a women’s input is very much valuable.
I am a male real estate broker and I admit there are times that I cant even find the key hole of a front door but I disagree with some of these doctors claiming that a woman has only one specific G-Spot.
So, what do Women tell other Women who are non believers of a G-Spot? Women should be involved mentally in this complex discussion to express there comments regarding climaxing and their G-Spot. They should be sharing their own experiences and not only to be used as rats or degraded in any sense. I don’t believe the purpose of the study is to degrade women. The purpose for this study depends on your own sexual theory and experience with orgasm. Although, controversial the end results for the G-Spot studies is to eventually help women who can not orgasm. What do Women recommend to other Women who have not reached the big O?
Original Post:
The mysterious G spot - supposedly a route to female sexual satisfaction - can be located with ultrasound, claim Italian scientists.
Some women say stimulating a certain part of the vagina triggers powerful orgasms, but medics have not been able to pin down the exact location.
Researchers told New Scientist magazine they found an area of thicker tissue among the women reporting orgasms.
But specialists warned there could be other reasons for this difference.
 For the first time, it is possible to determine by a simple, rapid and inexpensive method if a woman has got a G spot or not 
Dr Emmanuele Jannini
University of L'Aquila

The existence of the G spot has remained controversial since the 1980s, when the term was coined as a way to explain why some women were able to achieve orgasm through vaginal stimulation, while others were not.
Some specialists claim that the term has led to over-anxiety among women who cannot reach satisfaction this way, and their partners.
Love muscle
The latest research, published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, was carried out the Dr Emmanuele Jannini at the University of L'Aquila, and involved just 20 women.
Ultrasound was used to measure the size and shape of the tissue beyond the "front" wall of the vagina, often suggested as the location of the G spot.
In the nine women who reported being able to achieve vaginal orgasm, the tissues between the vagina and the urethra - which carries urine out of the body - were on average thicker than in the 11 women who could not reach orgasm this way.
 It's telling people that there is a single, best way to have sex, which isn't the right thing to do 
Dr Petra Boynton
University College London

Dr Jannini said: "For the first time, it is possible to determine by a simple, rapid and inexpensive method if a woman has got a G spot or not."
However, Dr Tim Spector, from St Thomas' Hospital in London, told New Scientist that the thicker tissue might actually be part of the clitoris - another extremely sensitive area.
Another suggestion was that, rather than being the cause of more orgasms, having these frequently might actually lead to better-developed musculature in this area.
Dr Petra Boynton, a sexual psychologist at University College London, said that an entire industry had grown up around the idea of a G spot, and it was unhelpful to label women unable to find theirs as "dysfunctional".
She said: "We're all different. Some women will have certain area within the vagina which will be very sensitive, and some won't - but they won't necessarily be in the area called the G spot.
"If a woman spends all her time worrying about whether she is normal, or has a G spot or not, she will focus on just one area, and ignore everything else.
"It's telling people that there is a single, best way to have sex, which isn't the right thing to do."

"I admit there are times that I cant even find the key hole of a front door..."

Um, er, ah...ok. Not feeling this one. (Pun intended)

"Women should be involved mentally in this complex discussion to express there comments regarding climaxing and their G-Spot."
Women *have* been, for decades now, which for me kinda makes this 'discovery' superfluous

"Dr Petra Boynton, a sexual psychologist at University College London, said that an entire industry had grown up around the idea of a G spot, and it was unhelpful to label women unable to find theirs as "dysfunctional".
She said: "We're all different. Some women will have certain area within the vagina which will be very sensitive, and some won't - but they won't necessarily be in the area called the G spot.
"If a woman spends all her time worrying about whether she is normal, or has a G spot or not, she will focus on just one area, and ignore everything else.
"It's telling people that there is a single, best way to have sex, which isn't the right thing to do."
Very very true!

I admire and respect your comments at least you have shown other female members on this forum that you are not intimidated to express your opinions on this complex subject of Orgasm and G-Spot study. Unfortunately, it’s typical for women not to help or assist the majority of women who have not reached the glorified big-O.:confused:

As a male, I have erected my concerns for those dissatisfied and unfortunate women who are being mislead to believe that they only have one specific G-Spot. Or the fact that 50% women will never have an orgasm via intercourse and will require clitoral or anal stimulation to climax. Or the fact that more and more women and couples are having anal sex as a possible solution for climaxing. Why is it only 5% of women who are selfishly experiencing true multiple orgasms? What do they have that other women don’t have? What are these women doing that these doctors cant figure out? Instead of trying to prove a specific location for the G-Spot. Are women really to believe they have only one G-Spot?

Why should it be male medical doctors and not female sex therapists researching and exploring. Sure there has been an alarming increase of women who cant climax? Which brings us back to the question “ Is it a physical problem or a psychological one?”

What are other women recommending besides listening to the debates between medical doctors trying to prove that there is a specific location called the G-Spot and then on the other side of bed you have psychologists trying to convince that this dry spell is totally psychological? Most shocking is that some doctors believe the G-Spot does even exist!

Ok, we know that Italy is in the top 20 of the most sexual active Countries. What’s a women to do? Come to Italy and find an Italian man who is hung like an olive tree so they can have an orgasm or do they enroll in the Art of making Pasta so they can make a noodle long enough to hang themselves from a olive tree because they cant have a Orgasm? Is this Italian G-Spot study for reaching the big “Olives” or is intended to help women reach the other Big O! “Orgasm”

Maybe it is best us Italian men just leave our penis wrapped up in some jelly fish, somewhere in a lover’s cove strand on a beach while we come up with answers or go back up to the mountains and practice are foreplay “research and exploration” thump humping sheep’s for the answers. Otherwise, I agree women should be telling these doctors and men what the solutions are for helping other frustrated women who cant climax or find their G-Spot!

"I admire and respect your comments at least you have shown other female members on this forum that you are not intimidated to express your opinions on this complex subject of Orgasm and G-Spot study. Unfortunately, it’s typical for women not to help or assist the majority of women who have not reached the glorified big-O.:confused:"

Frank, thank you for your words, but you should not assume the lack of response on this thread by women to be 'intimidation'. Here's a secret: women as a whole will talk and act differently in a room by themselves, than in a room with them and one man (especially regarding something as intimate as their bodies and/or their sexualities.)


"Why is it only 5% of women who are selfishly experiencing true multiple orgasms? What do they have that other women don’t have? What are these women doing that these doctors cant figure out? Instead of trying to prove a specific location for the G-Spot. Are women really to believe they have only one G-Spot?"

I think the doctors will find many reasons, both physical and psychological, as to why a certain percentage of women do not achieve a level of satisfaction during intercourse.
Just keep in mind that the definition of orgasm to a woman is much different than to a man

"What are other women recommending besides listening to the debates between medical doctors trying to prove that there is a specific location called the G-Spot and then on the other side of bed you have psychologists trying to convince that this dry spell is totally psychological?"I will leave this for other women to answer, should they feel safe enough to.

"Maybe it is best us Italian men just leave our penis wrapped up in some jelly fish, somewhere in a lover’s cove strand on a beach while we come up with answers or go back up to the mountains and practice are foreplay “research and exploration” thump humping sheep’s for the answers. Otherwise, I agree women should be telling these doctors and men what the solutions are for helping other frustrated women who cant climax or find their G-Spot!"
Frank, your quills conjure up some vivid (if not surreal) imagery. You are an interesting poet.:)

You should realize that there may be a very real distrust for doctors and researchers out there. It is historically normaltive for the (male-dominated) medical profession to filter information through their own testosterone. It has not always been objective. (Look up the history of hysterectomies, for example.)
Women have not been treated equally by this institution. In fact, much of the research and accumulated medical knowledge out there has come from a woman's need to understand her own body. This is primary.

G Spot Study has raveled certain sexual positions provide better access than others in reaching the big-O. The study shows which of the sexual positions has the highest percentage of success.

Manual Stimulation
G-spot stimulation can be a precision art, so use your own fingers or a toy to find out what she likes best. Once you discover what gets her off in terms of pressure, speed, and aim, you'll have a better idea of how to incorporate that into intercourse. While there are thousands of positions you can use for this, some of them will fatigue you before you’re done! Have your partner sit on a comfortable arm chair with her legs propped over the arms, while you kneel between her legs on the floor. She can also lay back on the bed, but prop her butt up with a pillow. It's great to start with your fingers so you get the lay of the land, but consider introducing a toy, preferably one with a handle like the Archer Wand , so she can experience firm pressure. Make sure your fingers or the toy's curve are pointed up toward your belly when you enter her, and then experiment with pressure and motion to see what she likes best. Manual Stimulation was rated at a very low 25% success rate.

Doggie Style (or Rear Entry in virginal only)
One of the most preferred positions for G-spot stimulation, doggie style provides good access to her G-spot, and works well when you want to trade off who controls the motion—you can thrust, or she can rock back onto you. Have your partner bend over the side of the bed, or prop herself up on her hands and knees, while you enter her from behind. You want the tip of your penis or dildo to rub against your partner's G-spot, so experiment with different positions to find what works best. Have your partner arch her back like a cat or relax her belly down toward the bed to discover what feels best. Although this is one of the most preferred positions with couples, it received a failing grade of 45%. Anal sex which has been on the rise amongst couples was not graded in this study.

Spoons Position
If your arms get tired from propping yourselves up in the traditional rear entry position, try the spoons position, as it offers many of the same benefits as doggie style, but puts less stress on your body. Lie on your sides in the spoons position, so that your front is pressed up against her back. Because you're so close together, your penis or dildo will be in constant contact with her G-spot. This position works very well for people of many sizes and ranges of mobility. The spoons position scored a passing grade of 65% success rate.

Woman on Top
Many women claim that the woman on top position is the one that pushes them over the top, orgasmically speaking. Because she controls the speed and pressure used on her G-spot, she can make fine adjustments to the position or motion until she finds what she likes best. In this position, she straddles you and leans back. As she leans back and pushes her hips forward, your penis or dildo will tilt up farther toward the G-spot. Have her experiment with sliding forward and back or bouncing up and down. This position scored the highest at a 79% success rate.




:rolleyes:

G- Spot Study : Italian food ingredients for a fabulous Orgasm

Licking is great! but Eating your way to an even better love life and reaching the big-O sounds fabulous.

Surprise! If you want hotter sex, eating hot red Italian chili peppers can be one quick temporary solution. Arouse your lover first, bypass the bedroom and head straight for the kitchen with your high heels on, wearing only your apron and prepare Italian food recipes using some of the food items listed below. What you eat (or don't eat) has a direct impact on your sex life, affecting your hormone, energy and stress levels. Here, are the foods recommend from a study of Italian women who had a high rate of multiple orgasms:

1. Honey.
Here's the buzz: The sweet stuff is a bountiful source of boron (a mineral also found in green leafy vegetables, fruits, legumes and nuts). Boron helps the body metabolize and utilize estrogen, the basic female sex hormone. Some studies have shown that this mineral may also enhance blood levels of testosterone, the hormone responsible for promoting the specific drive for genital sex and orgasm in both men and women.
2. Oil or Fats from vegetables, seeds and nuts are key sources of fatty acids, from which your body produces cholesterol. Despite its bad rap, cholesterol is the basis for all sex hormones. If you (or your man) have recently started a rigorous nonfat diet and you've noticed a flagging of interest and desire, fit in more healthy fats and you'll probably experience a jump in libido. Look for vegetable and nut oils labeled "cold-pressed." These retain more nutrients than those processed with heat. Cold-pressed oils also contain vitamin E, which is essential to keeping your hormones balanced.
3. Pasta or Grain : To pump up your libido, which increases the amount of the hormone testosterone available in the blood.
4. Mussels or Shellfish: This classic aphrodisiac may actually deserve its reputation. Shellfish (in fact, all seafood) is packed with minerals that are critical components of sex hormones. Minerals are also vital for optimal functioning of your brain and nervous system. "The minerals in seafood are already in their so-called salt forms, which makes them readily usable by the body
5. Chicory: is another source of mineral mojo. It helps with thyroid function, it's not uncommon for a woman suffering a loss of libido to have a mild case of hypothyroidism that doesn't show up in medical tests.
6. Chocolate: Isn't it great when a food you love is also good for your love life? " Chocolate contains methylxanthines, which stimulate the transmission and conduction of nerve impulses "In addition, they also create a feeling of satisfaction." Chocolate is also known as an organoleptic food, which means that its sensual texture, color and scent help get you in the mood. Other sensual foods include cocoa, chocolate sauce, ice cream, cheese sauces and cream sauces.
7. Eggs: (pantothenic acid), eggs can help blow away bedroom blues by balancing hormone levels, maintaining energy levels and helping the body cope with stress. Other sources of B6 include spinach, carrots, peas, brewer's yeast, sunflower seeds, wheat germ and fish; you can stock up on pantothenic acid by eating potatoes, saltwater fish, meat, whole grains, milk and fresh veggies.

8. Rabbit or lean red meat, along with dark-meat poultry, brown rice, whole-grain bread, seafood, green leafy vegetables and crumbly cheeses are all good sources of zinc. By helping to curb production of the pituitary hormone prolactin, which at high levels can cause sexual dysfunction, this mineral helps keep the zip in your sex life.

Should women be controlling their weight or food diet to improve their sex life in reaching the big O. Weight watchers and Orgasm Studies
Women who are under weight (135lbs) have less difficulties reaching orgasm than women over weight . True or False?
Recommended reading for women: Theresa Crenshaw, M.D., author of The Alchemy of Love and Lust.

found it ! oh what a feeling !:D

found it ! oh what a feeling !:D

Congratulations!:p

G-Spot Study Italian doctors have been asked by dissatisfied women having problems reaching the big O, if size matters?

The most common G-Spot is an area on the anterior wall of the vagina. If you take the gynecologist's view during an examination, that's the 12 o'clock position. It is located only two to three inches from the entrance. Unlike the clitoris, it is not a distinct organ. The report indicates that size does matter (smaller) penis has had more success in women experiencing multiple orgasms. A majority of women report Men that have a small penis effectively use the rock hard head pressure on the G-Spot to be much greater as compared to a longer penis which deeply by passes the G-Spot area. The report tends to support why a higher percentage of women experience multiple orgasm thru oral sex and tongue lashings.

This one G-Spot is a small area on the vaginal wall that is extremely sensitive to pressure. When properly stimulated, it gradually swells to an oval shape about 1 cm. by 2 cm., producing heightened sexual responsively which may lead to multiple orgasms.
Vaginal orgasms originate from stimulation of the G-Spot and are diffuse with a warm-all-over feeling. Clitoral orgasms originate from stimulation of the clitoris and are more localized to that short distant site. a blending of the two types of orgasms.

The G-Spot was first noted in the literature by Dr. Grafenberg in 1950. It was rediscovered in 1980 by John Perry, M.Div., Ph.D. and Beverly Whipple, R.N., M.Ed. who named it the Grafenberg Spot. Although the controversy still remains as there are still some sex researchers who believe the G-Spot does not exist.
However, the women who took part in this study happily experienced these orgasms remain convinced that it does exist and size does not matter.

Cheating to achieve Climax is becoming acceptable in Europe for frustrated Women!

Sex Researchers report 70% of married woman are simply not satisfied in bed. When the frustration sets in from not being able to reach the big O blitz, these unsatisfied women don’t complain…instead they silently and discreetly look for sexual satisfaction somewhere else!
One Italian sex therapist states the most common response from overly dry women is “lets be honest.. it’s the same old story” In the beginning the sex life is OK. The guy doesn’t complain, he’s always satisfied after having sex. But we are not satisfied at all so we look for sexual satisfaction…Yes, I mean cheating.

Reports indicate cheating in Europe is at an all time high. So, while men have an orgasm every single time, “women go to sleep” after having sex completely frustrated! Not anymore… as more and more women are cheating with the utmost desire to squirt like fountains of water. Every woman wants to be sexually aroused, they what their hearts to beat faster while their breathing quickens. Or to feel the quiver as their muscles tighten all over their body and their breasts enlarge as the nipples stand out while the areolas becomes noticeably enlarged. Some women flush red on their face, neck and chest while the visible part of the clitoris swells slightly. Secretions occur inside and at the opening of the vagina. Her labia flatten and open. The vagina lengthens and widens internally, changing what was a potential space into more of an actual space. These vaginal changes are mainly a result of a rush of blood to the pelvic area called engorgement which provides a generally pleasurable warmth in a female’s genital area.
Its sounds awful, but it’s true.

G-Spot Study Facts
Female Ejaculation

Ejaculation is associated almost entirely with the sexual response of men—simply, we know that’s what happens when they come. But ejaculation is a common sexual response for women, too. Have you ever felt an expulsion of fluid during sex, and left a wet mark on the bed? Maybe you felt like you had to pee just before it happened, but you were having such a great time you decided to let go into the feeling. That’s female ejaculation. It can happen during orgasm or independent of it, and the amount of fluid expelled can be anything from a small dribble to a copious spray.
When the G-spot fills with fluid, rhythmic pressure from fingers or toys or a penis, or the contractions of orgasm, often make the fluid shoot out through the urethral opening. A lot of people mistake this wetness for urine, because most of the time when fluid shoots out of the urethral opening, it is when we’re urinating. But during sex, that fluid is female ejaculate, and it comes from the ducts around the urethra, not from all the way up in the bladder, where urine is stored. So, leaving a little wetness, or even soaking your sheets, is a completely normal outcome of sex. Not ejaculating is normal, too.

G-Spot Study

Frigid :confused:

'Coming' isn't all that easy - if you're a woman! Nearly all men can climax without difficulty, but women just aren't built that way.

Most people don’t realize that fact.

Let's face it, books, films and - above all - teen and women's magazines paint a very different picture in which today's females are hot, raring to go and effortlessly orgasmic.

So for women who are not all of those things - and that is a great many of them - this type of media portrayal is, at best, unhelpful and, at worst, painful and damaging. Indeed, today's teens and 20-somethings tend to believe that there's something wrong with them - or even that they're frigid - if they can't climax to order. This is not the case. In fact, mostly they're absolutely normal.
A generation ago many doctors used to believe that a high proportion of the female population simply couldn't climax at all. Why did they think this way? Simply because most of them had had little or no training in sexual medicine. Also, the great majority of them were so embarrassed about sex themselves that they tried to avoid discussing it with their patients. Furthermore, since women don't need to climax in order to conceive, most doctors didn't rate the importance of the female orgasm very highly.

A new attitude for Doctors and female patients

nowadays, fortunately, medics have a very different attitude. This is largely because they are now familiar with the results of sexual studies conducted by American researchers Kinsey, Masters and Johnson, Shere Hite and others.

In addition, the last 15 years have seen a number of sexual surveys conducted with large samples of people through newspapers and magazines. Indeed, our own company - the Medical Information Service - has designed many of these.

The results of these surveys have taken the lid off the sex life of the public. Now we know that virtually any woman can climax - and indeed have multiple climaxes - if the circumstances of her life are right. And these circumstances usually include having a caring, understanding partner who is knowledgeable about sex, and who uses that knowledge to help her relax and to reach orgasm.

As we've already said, orgasm is a much more automatic response for men than for women. It seems that even though there are plenty of deeply caring and decent guys around, their ability to climax does not necessarily have to be linked to feelings of love and romance. Women of all ages, by contrast, tend to find that their sexual confidence and competence flower in a climate of appreciation and deep affection.

Of course nowadays there are young 'ladettes' - females who set out to have as much uncommitted and uncomplicated sex as young men - but they are in the minority. And we have discovered that many of these youngsters are secretly quite miserable.

Wine & Orgasm

Italian Sex researchers say that Wine will help reach the Big-O!
Over the years the most common response for married women with respect on how they achieve climax is as follows:

"I am very happy in my marriage, I love my husband dearly, but I can rarely reach an orgasm. When I do climax it is when he performs oral sex, and I have to be intoxicated -- and even then I have trouble. He tries so very hard to please me, but I have a huge mental block and just cannot seem to relax, even after many years of marriage. I want to be able to do this freely when I am sober."

Do you have to be intoxicated?

Italian sex researchers reply:

No one deserves a sex life in which you have to be drunk or drinking to enjoy pleasure, your body and loving from your partner. Although, a little wine will help relax your body and help circulated the blood stream in achieving orgasm.

On the other side of bed:
Some medical doctors and sex therapists dispute this remedy of wine and believe most women who fall in this category of Intoxication are “overcoming Sexual Trauma”.
Being numbed by alcohol means that you are not there during sex. Doctors’ suspect that someone or something affected you when you were a young girl or young woman. Perhaps it was sexual trauma or abuse: You were ridiculed by your peers or shamed about your body by an older sibling, or you suffered through an incident of inappropriate, coercive or violent touch -- sexual or otherwise. It may simply be that your own family's or religion's values taught that sex was wrong, bad or dirty. Whatever happened to you in your childhood or young-adult years, it can have a lasting effect until you discover the path to be healed and Wine or Intoxication is not your solution.

Most Italians disagree and believe if you can find the trust to be open to your own erotic nature, you will succeed. And if you can open up and trust both love and sexual intimacy, you will find the pleasure bond you deserve over a glass of wine.

Salute

“How to prepare your Italian lover for the big O with Oral Sex”

A Sex Researcher in Italy has found the ultimate blowjob buff – a man who’s not only passionate about receiving a great BJ, but is good at giving them, too. Again, the gay man is heralded for his advice-giving abilities! From here on in we shall call our expert the “Penis Whisperer” (or PW, for short) for his insight into what the phrase “thinking with his dick” really means.

The “penis whisperer,” tells you how to blow your man’s mind…and his load with an Italian Blowjob!

Penile Emotions
You may have suspected – and now the Penis Whisperer confirms: as a guy gets turned on, he turns into an animal. “We have a natural animalistic reflex,” says PW, “Our dicks are saying ‘I need something to touch me right now.’ Or ‘I need to be inside something. I need to be surrounded.’” And this is why, says PW, a guy without self-control might start thrusting or climb on top of his prey.
Having said that, hopefully you haven’t experienced inappropriate thrusting since high school. The point here is that the guy’s penis is excited and so is he – the best time to initiate oral sex.

Hands on the Hard-On
Now it’s time to take things into your own hands – literally. PW suggests a gentle upper thigh massage to get the object of your fellatio going. This, combined with lightly kissing his abdomen and groin area, will help get him hard if he’s not already there. “Then lightly massage around the head of his penis,” says PW. “The penis loves light touching.”
Remember that the penis is most sensitive just under the head so this is a good place to concentrate your efforts. “Guys are also extremely sensitive around their balls,” says PW. He cautions to be very gentle – so no grabbing!

Face Time
When he’s good, hard and totally turned on, it’s time to put your mouth into action. PW suggest starting with lightly kissing around the head then putting it inside your mouth. And since, as PW points out, the penis wants to be completely surrounded, the more you can put in your mouth the better. “Deep throating” will excite him but don’t worry if you have a strong gag reflex! You can angle your mouth so his penis is entering on the diagonal or just take it in as far as you can go and move on to the more important stuff. PW warns that when his whole penis is in your mouth, the top isn’t getting the attention it needs, so he won’t stay as hard. Another very important tip – never bite or use your teeth. Teeth scare penises.

Romance the Penis
The best-case scenario is that you’re also having fun, so let him know. “Look at him, make noises that let him know it turns you on,” says PW. It’ll turn him on even more. He also says that a blowjob doesn’t have to be strictly sexual. “There’s a way to do it romantically,” he says. “Make love to his penis with your mouth. It can turn into a very emotional thing.” PW recommends holding on to his penis with your hand and making out with the head. Even better, move your hand up and down the shaft, so you’re giving a combined hand and blowjob. If you’re getting tired, “this will make him come sooner,” says PW.

The Big Finish
Other ways to encourage him towards coming, he says, are to kiss or lick his balls and massage around his bum. “In between the anus and balls is a very sensitive spot but not many guys will let you touch there,” says PW. Instead, he suggests placing your finger towards his crack while massaging. “When we’re masturbating or looking at porn,” says PW, “we’re always waiting for the perfect moment to come. Anything that increases sensitivity or turns him on even more will make him want to ejaculate even faster,” so any additional massage, sexy sounds or visuals will get him even more excited. If you can, put your hair back so he can watch what you’re doing. “Guys are very visual,” says PW.

Finally, the big question: :eek:to swallow or not to swallow. Most guys will want to come into your mouth, says PW. The desire for a guy to come into a girl’s mouth comes from the fact that it feels so good in there they don’t want to leave before the show is over. Luckily though, PW says it really doesn’t matter what you do with the sperm once it’s on your tongue. Once the show is over, there’s nothing wrong with running to the sink.

good stuff Frank
but from the televison yesterday, 40 percent of italian men reported of having low sexual libido due to stress and work related problems..
whats your take on that?

good stuff Frank
but from the televison yesterday, 40 percent of italian men reported of having low sexual libido due to stress and work related problems..
whats your take on that?

Ciao Ronald
Glad to see someone on the forum who is not a Scorpio has a sexual sense of humor. Yes stress and work related worries have played a role in the increase of Italian men suffering from a frozen libido. Here is my take on the concerning situation with Italian men and their lazy libido.

They must first try to regain their sexual charm they need an injection of some southern Italian charm and get the hell out of the cold northern stressed out commercialized cities of Italy for a couple of weeks. Yes! a vacation and some Vitamin E called southern sunshine found in the regions of Calabria and Sicily. These 40 % of men who are suffering with a low lazy libido stopped putting peach slices in their wine and stopped feeding their women grapes in bed during sex. There back fumbling around like a donkey on ice skates trying to find a way or any way to get their woman to reach orgasm.

To increase male libido naturally, they need to consume more fresh fruit, especially figs which are found in the southern regions of Italy. They also have to stop becoming selfish and return to being a vaginal vacuum. I suggest they get over themselves, because your woman loves to be licked just as much as we consider a good Italian blow job a part of foreplay.
They have got to stop complaining about their low lazy libido, and put their mouth back to work. They need their faces splashed with some curative water streams from the heavenly vagina.

:DA Lazy Libido refresher course starts now!

Tongue to lips
Any licking, gentle sucking or all-around moisture from the mouth to the vaginal entrance, the labia (lips) or the clitoris will surely make you popular with your flavor of the evening.

When you begin to give oral sex, it's important to start slowly. Women like it when a man takes the time to appreciate her and her body. What she won't like is an over-achiever who jumps right in with an aggressive tongue. Pretend that her entire vagina is an ice-cream cone with three scoops of your favorite flavor; if you don't like ice-cream, I'm sure you can appreciate the metaphor. Use your tongue to lick her vagina from its entrance up to the clitoris. Remember to chill out and relax; enjoy yourself and don't get tense.

Move your tongue freely from her inner lips to her outer labia on one side. Once you've done that, draw her lips into your mouth and massage them with your tongue. And since the other side will probably get jealous, move on to the other side afterward.
Oral exploration
Were you aware that the tongue is the body's strongest muscle? Well imagine what you could do with your tongue if you were giving her oral sex. Since you have more control with your tongue than with your penis the sensations will drive her crazy.

Not only is your tongue naturally lubricated with saliva, you can maneuver it in ways that a penis never could. So why not use your tongue to have sex with her? Thrust your tongue in and out of her vagina, and take a break from time to time to explore her insides.

While you're roaming around down there, vary your cadence and the firmness of your tongue. Use your firm, flexed tongue for pinpoint accuracy, such as when you circle the clitoris, and use a limber, flat tongue to cover more ground.

Remember to continuously return to her clitoris since most women achieve orgasm through clitoral stimulation -- especially when it comes to oral sex. However, don't apply too much pressure to her clitoris right away because it may irritate her and turn her off. Start out gently and increase pressure and speed according to her body language.

Above all, have fun down there when you're giving her oral sex, and keep her on her toes (or off as the case may be).
Intense vaginal volume
When you have her as hot as a lioness in heat, the following oral sex techniques are going to drive her wild. Once again, make sure to pay attention to her reactions and body language at all times.

With her clitoris still exposed, give it quick little sucks by enveloping it with your mouth momentarily and releasing it. This will definitely have a positive effect on her entire body.

Next, take her clitoris into your mouth and gently suck on it while you simultaneously flick your tongue over and around it. You can perform this oral technique very lightly or aggressively, depending on what she likes.
After all that hopefully will stop hearing the lazing excuse of a low libido!